Life is not a race. Take it slower. Hear the music before the song is over!!
Often I hear that I'm weird, but in a good way. I'm not really sure what that means, but I'm guessing it means that I'm different. Are we labeled? Why is it that we often thrive after recognition from others? I must say that in the light of the day things and situations often change. And with the moon as well, we people change. It's like there's someone pushing us over or into a path that we normally wouldn't take. When did it stop being fun and start being scary?
I wish for you all to get a little bit of an insight in what's going on and maybe tell me how it's around the world. Because I've seen that there are readers from all around the world. Hello to you all! Wish you well and happiness!
So when this is said I'm back on the theme of love again. not because I'm so good at it, but because it's whats important to me. As for me to know my heritage and background. Yes, it's a little bit tricky knowing the truth when you're adopted from the other side of the world. But I still think about this. I have friends and a man whom are adopted, as well as my sister. But it isn't everybody that let this play a roll in their life. Some accept that they're in another country and others spend their life looking for answers. For the parents this can be hard, I know, but it's nothing personal. I'm thinking that you should be supportive and learn about theirs heritage together with them. This might create an closer bond between you and your children. This goes for biological children as well, it should be mandatory to teach your kids about their heritage. In others cultures they teach you everything about where you're from, how to cook, raise children, be proud and how to treat others with respect. Here in the Scandinavia some of this seems lost in translation.
When it comes to love its all just a blur. Whats right seems wrong and whats wrong seems right. And whether you're a man or a woman it's hard to find someone to stay in the foxhole with. But when you've finally found the one you could see yourself with it's not just easy. You have to work for it, put in time and effort for the other person. But still remember to don't lose yourself in the mix. It often happen without you even noticing it. Suddenly you change into a pod! Be aware and keep your eyes open for another "relationsmare". And watch out for the freaky Friday men, you never know where or when they appear!
"Carrie: Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous."
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