Dating..?

It's an new era and it's online. These days we communicate more here on the web than ever before. You can get in touch with people all over the world and it's awesome!

So when you make a new profile on a site, remember to show the best of you. And have in mind that every site it's an potential dating site. Because men and women see opportunities in everything. And won't nudge to try something new. But still there are rules and regulations on these sites.
When you're adding a person you don't know, write a little note. This goes for the communities. But it's the dating services it's about today. So here goes everything, almost. Be honest, write something that catches the eye and the attention. To only compliment a person, it's probably not the best way. Like you have to write something that stands out a little. So that he/she will remember you or think you're interesting.

"DON'T settle on the first guy you go out with. Even if
you like a guy and hit it off after the first date, continue
to date other men until you are in a committed relationship
with a man who truly meets all your needs.

Otherwise, you risk putting all your eggs in one basket (so
to speak) with a guy who may or may not be the one for you...
and maybe even missing the opportunity to meet the man who IS the one."

I'm guessing desperation can be seen online as well, so keep your life busy and don't sit around wait for a guy. If he hasn't decided that he wants to be with you, date other men! And be honest about your intentions towards the person you're seeing! It creates a lot of confusion and stress if you give out mixed signals.
Some guys thinks that they can have their cake and eat it too, but that's wrong. When you're not giving someone all they deserve, they often turn to others. So if you meet someone you really like and been seeing them for a while, tell them and don't think that things will change. There are a lot of guys that's afraid of loosing their "freedom", but it's not like that. If you're with someone that really cares, they always wants the best in life for you. They don't want to control you or tell you what not to do. Even when you're in a relationship, you're still to individuals! It's not important to spend every minute together, but knowing that you've got someone that loves you behind your back. I would never deny a man anything, but I do expect the same back. A relationship aren't a prison, it's a beautiful thing between two people who loves and trust each other.




Copyright © 2009 Lady AhY

I really want you to really want me, but I really don't know if you can do that?

When you sit alone in your own world and let your mind flow freely, is that when you decide? Decide to be with someone that means something to you?

I recently had a lot of mixed feelings about this subject, it's not easy. Are you supposed to follow your head or your heart? What does really count in the end? Is it the companionship or is it that you can just lie there quietly together without saying a word and just be comfortable?
In the end we all just wants to be accepted for who we are. Be loved, appreciated and feel safe. Nevertheless is this, love, a subject that we all have different views on from time to time. And yes, it does change. I can only speak for myself, but haven't you found yourself thinking, "if it wasn't for you I would want kids, get married and so on."?

I've been speaking to some of my friends lately, for instant my ladies. We are all agreed on that it's not easy trying to sort things out. But we learned along the years that we shouldn't take things to seriously. Just enjoy and make the most out of our lives while were here! So live it up ladies!

And for you whom still sit alone and contemplate about what to do or not to do, just do it! Take a risk of faith and see what good comes out of it. Nothing will change.. There's almost certain that you won't fail and if you do, it's just to get back up and brush it off!




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When in love..

We all act differently. There's no manual or easy way out of this. For some being single to the bitter end is an solution, but I don't buy that. I'm guessing you who are fooling yourselves and other to believe this in reality miss having someone special. We all pair of because it's what's expected from us. But it's also because we want to. I personally want to have that special someone in my life. Making a life together, sharing experiences and love each other unconditionally!

But what's the difference between being in love and having a crush?




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This is for..

You who think you know, but in reality are clueless!

I've experienced my share of weirdness trough the years, but there's a few things that I've not been able to wrap my mind around yet. Like men, relationships (both friends and lovers), family and life.
I go day by day, never really plan anything, because of getting used to being stood up I guess. But I'm not bitter, I never regret my decisions or blame others for things going wrong. I raise up, brush it off and start over. I really believe that everything will be alright and that everybody will get what they deserve. But I've never been the one who sit quietly in the shadow of others. I use it all for what it's worth. Because I truly believe that for as long as I've only got myself to take care of everything goes. This isn't egoistic or selfishness, but a way to secure my own life. For the most of my time I've always done as I've wanted and I still do. Because when others can't define a situation or a relationship I don't ow them anything. To get my loyalty you'd have to be honest about your intention. Yes I've made mistakes and I still do, no ones perfect. But for what it's worth it's my life!

I have my friends, my good friends that I trust, love and would give my life for!

How many great loves will you get? Is it like Charlotte from "Sex and the City" states, that we only get two great loves?
I believe that love will come your way at any time, no rules and regulations. You can as easily fall out of love as in it again. And throughout your whole life as well as my own I think we'll fall in love with others even when we're in a relationship. There's no stopping our feelings. But to really be with the one you have invest like you do with friends. It takes time, work and money! Nothing comes easy. It's like wall street or as we have here in Norway, Oslo Børs. Not to be superficial, but just look at your life and you'll see. And still there's no promises that it'll stay that way!

But stay in the game and stay positive!!
It's all love...



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This is love

When somethings good it's like I have to fuck it up a little in my own head. Just to have drama in my life. I'm not used to an drama free relationship. There has always been something, a little portion of crazy if you know what I'm talking about..

So this it's a little weird and seems odd to me. But as we all know it's all me. That twists and turns this around to whatever. I always questions people in my head. Never out loud tho, OMG, that's forbidden, haha! Are you real, does the things you say come from your heart or because you want something? My family and friends tell me to chill out. Yeah, that's easy - you know me very well I see! I'm the kind of person that sit still and just wait for things to happen naturally, with my patient wrapped nicely in silk.. No no no no! But I do analyze things quietly in my head when I'm on my own.

But I won't be love shy anymore.. Thinking about you!

My horoscope for the day; "Your volatile, sizzling nature sends you into a funk. Stay away from people or situations that feed the fire. Extra stress is really bad for your complexion and your love life. You'll find the essence of life in the eyes and souls of the people who truly love you."

Love is when you no longer have to question, but know the answer in your heart. It's all about trust and friendship. And the little things that makes you smile, a cute text, a phone call or a card. To throw in a little "I miss you" in between isn't wrong either.

From now I'm giving this my all, there's no return or going back!
"All I want he's all I need. You gotta take me and fly and fly away. Put me for all eternity my love I feel for you. I wanna tell you I, make my sun shine, brighter than a silver screen. All I want is all I want he's all I need. All I want is love, but you, you gotta know that life don't mean that much to me. If I had to live my life without you baby. You had to tell me why love is gonna die."




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Easter..

From I was a kid Easter has been about candy and eggs. And as I grow older it's all the same, except that now I have to buy my own egg and candy.

I did buy an egg for my man, Marius, filled it up with the things he likes so he'll get sweeter. Because he's worth it I hope. And I do give this my all. It's scary at times, to leave your heart out like this. But it's all about life and love. So I'm doing this for real this time. I can also see now that before has never really been real. So when you're away on your Easter holiday, skiing hanging with your boys send me a few thoughts..

"People are interested in the person who is interested in them.... You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you." -Dale Carnegie.

Happily in love...




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A bit...

Ben Franklin once said, "In this world, nothing is certain but death and taxes."
Life is not a race. Take it slower. Hear the music before the song is over!!

Often I hear that I'm weird, but in a good way. I'm not really sure what that means, but I'm guessing it means that I'm different. Are we labeled? Why is it that we often thrive after recognition from others? I must say that in the light of the day things and situations often change. And with the moon as well, we people change. It's like there's someone pushing us over or into a path that we normally wouldn't take. When did it stop being fun and start being scary?

I wish for you all to get a little bit of an insight in what's going on and maybe tell me how it's around the world. Because I've seen that there are readers from all around the world. Hello to you all! Wish you well and happiness!

So when this is said I'm back on the theme of love again. not because I'm so good at it, but because it's whats important to me. As for me to know my heritage and background. Yes, it's a little bit tricky knowing the truth when you're adopted from the other side of the world. But I still think about this. I have friends and a man whom are adopted, as well as my sister. But it isn't everybody that let this play a roll in their life. Some accept that they're in another country and others spend their life looking for answers. For the parents this can be hard, I know, but it's nothing personal. I'm thinking that you should be supportive and learn about theirs heritage together with them. This might create an closer bond between you and your children. This goes for biological children as well, it should be mandatory to teach your kids about their heritage. In others cultures they teach you everything about where you're from, how to cook, raise children, be proud and how to treat others with respect. Here in the Scandinavia some of this seems lost in translation.

When it comes to love its all just a blur. Whats right seems wrong and whats wrong seems right. And whether you're a man or a woman it's hard to find someone to stay in the foxhole with. But when you've finally found the one you could see yourself with it's not just easy. You have to work for it, put in time and effort for the other person. But still remember to don't lose yourself in the mix. It often happen without you even noticing it. Suddenly you change into a pod! Be aware and keep your eyes open for another "relationsmare". And watch out for the freaky Friday men, you never know where or when they appear!



"Carrie: Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous."




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Sunshine

Finally it's here, spring and the sun! Loving this, hoping it'll stay like this until summertime. It can't go back now when it's this good.

So with spring comes fling or is it that the fling fits to all seasons? I'm asking you all around the world because I'm curious about how you look at this season. Nevertheless what you think about "flinging". Is it OK to chat with others online when you're in a relationship or do you look at that as being unfaithful?

I'm not the jealous kind, but be honest and take the consequences like a man! I don't accept dishonesty and backstabbing. If you got something to say, say it to my face. FYI this is not an attempt to attach any of you, it's just me and my pms'ing. And it's not pretty at all. But it's a thing we ladies got trough when it's 1-2weeks until our menstruation. So just bare with us, it doesn't last for more than a couple of days. And this is the time for you guys to give your lady an extra little something. It doesn't has to be big...
It's all about love...




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Love...

It's hard this life and if that's not enough we have to concur this thing we call love. We all look for it and when we've found it we complain. Ain't there no end to this story?

Nevertheless I have girlfriends who really wants their boyfriends to be more like they want to. But why are you together with someone you wanna change? That isn't right, is it? Or is it that you change a person or change into a person. It's not that you should want to do this, but yes there are situations where you would love the other person to do it a little different.

But why is it so hard to tell them what you want? The insecurity is now a fact. From my point of view I can see how things are with others, but when it comes to my own life it's hard. Is it that we pay for our mistakes in the next relationships? We ladies have our own way seeing what's what in this world. But we want you to see and get what we want without telling you. I get that this can be disturbing and unclear. But just give us a hint, about what's going on. Do the small romantic stuff, surprise us, send cute texts, take us out on dates and let us know that we mean something.

If you're out for fun, be honest about.

But I throw in the towel now, it's late and tomorrow it's a new day and I have an audition for Ragga Team Norway...

XoxoX




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Beauty - Is It In The Eye Of The Beholder?

I've read trough many articles that state different things about this subject. I'm guessing that it has to do with us being humans, and we seldom has the same opinions if it's not really obvious.

Like a pretty face is always a pretty face. But Beauty can come from the inside. It always does. If you take a look around and see the people walking around you. There are beautiful faces, but some changes when you speak with them. Their soul shines trough if it's a good person. Often I've spoken to a person that I think is incredible beautiful, but when he/she talks, it's not the same image anymore. Sometimes it's taken away or the person suddenly shines in front of you. The thing I'm saying is that a person with a good soul, is always beautiful no matter what! Because you see the good in their eyes from their soul! In the end it's not so much what other thinks about your significant other, but how you two are together! It's easy being carried away when you hear your friends opinion. But the only thing they should be worried about is, does he/she makes you happy?

I've been trough my share of bad relationships and still kept a few of them in my life afterwards. That's not good for either of you. I can only speak for myself, but when you've had deep feelings for a person, they're always gonna have a special place in your heart. I'm not the best at relationships, but I still know what I want in a man! The things I look for is the feeling of being complete and loved for all that I'm worth. That's to much to demand, but it's not really. This isn't a demand, but something that should be no matter what. Of course is the fit important. It has to be a person you want to spend your time with. An someone who's worth the time. So that in the end, you know that they would go trough fire for you!

I'm from a good home, with a marriage that would have lasted their lives if it wouldn't have been for my dad dieing from cancer. They've had been together for almost 40 years. Been trough their share of difficulties, like me when I grew up, stubborn and not easy to live with. So for me it's kind of hard to live up to the standards or finding someone who does.. And my mom says to me that I think about this to much. But for me family values are important. Show the people in your life that you appreciate them! With the small things..

So tell me what you think of this..




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Oh no..

So my Osteopath says that I can't eat gluten, dairy, less caffeine and sugar! Because my stomach is hyper. And I have to do what he's saying.. But he said that I've to keep taking the painkillers and drink a bottle of wine as well, so I better follow his advice! And remember to breath with my stomach.

"I want to be live in colors, like you've never seen before!
I'll rock your world like no one has ever done before.
Letting lose and take it to the top once more.
Not leaving you hanging on the wrong side anymore.
Let you in, see my world and give you my all this time.
Cos you deserve it, you're a good soul for sure!

It's hard letting go, but for this time I will.
Let you inside my world, in my heart it's trill.
You'll be amazed and complete like never before.
Just stay with me and I'll show you what I'm good for!
Never doubt, no complains, don't wanna hustle anymore.
Live my life like I deserve, I know I'm worth so much more!

Keep the smile on your face and I'll love you more.
For every time I see you I want you more.
Nevertheless it's you I don't see the point anymore.
Take it in, see it all, don't be scared no more.
Open your heart to the love let it be it's all.
So it's us, you and me this time for sure!"

So I stress, nothing new there I guess. We did all know that didn't we? Hmmm, how can it be so transparent trough my body? I knew that some things could be seen on the stomach. But how it all goes together, that's interesting! But I'm happy for once, so why does my body act out now? It's probably the drama missing in my life, so it's started it's own little "panic-life". Freakishly weird, the inside of me! I'm thinking I'm so used to having a lot of stuff just hanging over me that when life gets to care free my stomach does this!

Anyways, I am happy now and it does tickle, this feeling inside. Nevertheless it's almost unheard and unseen in my everyday life. So Hey Luv, so many things that I want to do...





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Osteopath..

So my neck has locked itself again. This time Marius drove me to the ER, sounds worse than it is. I got some pills and the doctor said that I have to go to an Osteopath, so I had my first appointment there today at 11.30am. And I have to go back at 3pm today.

He says that it's stress related to my stomach problems. And as it dawned on me while I was talking with him, the Osteopath, it's all on my right side. The neck pains, back pains, hip pain and stomach. So he told me to lower my shoulders and chill out! For you who knows me, that's a little bit of a problem right there really. My inside's going around like a washing machine, twirl and twirls like an hurricane on speed! So I'm guessing he's right.

Alright, I do stress with a few things, but ain't that normal? Tell me - What's going around in your brain?

I've been trough a lot in my life, but that isn't an excuse to stress about things. And I know I think a lot, sometimes maybe a little bit too much for my own sake. I also have these discussions with myself.
- How often do you have an conversation with yourself, out loud?
I'm thinking this is something everybody does from time to time. Maybe some more often than others.

Alright I've been thinking about a lot and when I open my mouth and listen to myself it's sometimes weird hearing what's coming out. Because at times there's absolutely no control over what's coming. Just like here, I write about everything that pops up in my head. No need to plan this or something else if that matter. It all comes in it's own way. Nevertheless it's all a big question mark when it comes to analyzing me. But to make this easy for you who try, I'm easy like that. It's all about giving and receiving. When I feel appreciated I'm there always and forever. But do me wrong and it will take time before I take you in again. For all the times I've been treated wrong it takes equal amount to do it right again. So it's not you it's just all of it, the baggage. I might struggle with leaving things behind. My bad memories follow me wherever I go. And as time goes on, you'll get to know my deep dark secrets. But that takes some time. I do not open myself to others so often. Not because I don't trust you, it's because I'm afraid of being left alone. I'm guessing it's something that's connected with my early child hood.
I do get sad when people leave, for different reasons, I think it's heartbreaking when I have to say goodbye to someone I care for! And I take people in fast. As my nature does it easily I do get attached fast. But I can move on as easily as I got myself into it!

yeah, I see it clearly now! My mind just, swoosh, and it's gone. Just looking back at what's written here.. Hehe.. Anyways, I have to get going to my Osteopath.. So we'll speak later!

But it's all LOVE!!!




Copyright © 2009 Lady AhY

Superwoman..

It feels like I said something wrong, like why didn't I mention this before. But it just hit me yesterday that I want to do this for real! Not halfway like I've done before..

I don't want to be just another girl. It feels like we've known each other for a long time even though it's only been a month. And yes, it takes time for me to let my guard down. So just be patient, I know you are. Nevertheless, I wish I said something earlier.. Even though I see myself as superwoman, I think you know that's not the case. For example I can't fly, yet!
The shift is noticeable, I felt it in my bones.. I suddenly feel very vulnerable. I don't like the feeling of losing control over myself. So if I withdraw, come and get me so we can take over the world! We'll buy the sailboat and sail the world, like we've planed.
So we're good!

Though I've gotten used to be just me, it's pretty easy using the we word. I would love to love you from bed, bath and beyond.

So maybe this feeling that I got it's just me. Like I said before, we make our own drama in lack of drama in our lives. It can be just me this time again. I wish that we could leave now, tomorrow, just go and make a life! Opening our eyes and souls for new experiences, a life, knowledge and people. But I'm so happy just to staying inside with you as well. It's comfortable and complete. And if I had wings I would fly away into the skies never looking back!

So I'm off...




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Valentine.. <3

So happiness is it. When you think of a person and you smile, I'm guessing it's right. And all the drama you create inside yourself it's all you.

So for this day I wish you all a happy valentine! Get at your loved one, friends, family and show them that you care. Ain't nothing as good as the feeling of appreciation and love. And together it's the best ever! Just to have a person in my life that cares for me. Likes the small things about me, when I smile, when I'm happy, when I talk and just wants to be with me. Travel the world, experience new things, don't be afraid to take a chance.
I've done this now. It's a little scary to be honest, but for the sake of things it feels right. Like the world around me stands still. And that there's nothing stopping us! So I'm guessing it's the same for you! We with our big plans. I'm loving it - I'm the big dreamer and some of my friends and family just look at me with The eyes. They've given up on me sometimes it feels like. But I'll show you all, it's my life and I'm the lead in this motion picture! So now I'm in good company!

And for you whom it might concern, let people be people, don't try to change them. Appreciate them for themselves! In each every one of us there's a force that thrives us. Towards our goals, lives, experiences and where we should be. Just take it all in and process it. So your life can go on.
Nevertheless open your heart and just do it! There's nothing to lose, this is it! So now for real this time - I'll do this! And to be honest - I'm scared shit less, because I'm going outside my safe box! But I only live once.. So I'm gonna keep the good one!!!




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Food goes with love..

This is the best Friday in a long time - Martine and I has ordered take out from Peppes. This is like the best idea we had here at work in a long time. And the food - m m mmmm!! So with a cheese burger and garlic bread in my stomach I'm almost happily satisfied and set for the weekend.

But there are a few things still missing this Friday and one is my Sugar. So i sit here all alone at work waiting for the weekend. Tonight Jedi Mind Tricks is having a concert at John Dee. The last time I saw them here in Oslo, I just heard them, because of all of the tall peoples! The only thing I saw was their necks and to be honest that ain't much really!

So now this workday day is soon over and I can go home and enjoy my weekend and the Sugar love...




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Bring it back..

Again I'm finding myself in a situation. Where I've been faced with one or more of my opinions. So it feels like it's on it's place to maybe make this twist on it.

First of all - Happy 30th Marius, the sun's out for you, so you're one of the good men..! My mind is set on change..so we'll see what's happen..

Even though I've judge some of you guys down and under here. I have to make it right. So I, who seldom admit that I'm wrong, but do change my opinions often will say this. There are actually good men out here. My pessimistic side takes me over once in a while. As a lady you know what I'm talking about and for you who don't, it's the PMS talking. But just to say that some of you're actually assholes! Treat a lady wrong and you'll find yourself in that category. And yes, I do know that we ladies can be just as bad. But we have a way that's probably more subtle. So definition, we're only humans!
I wouldn't like to come out as heartless. But I'm protecting my heart and soul. But my guard ain't up at all times. So catch me when my lights are on and I'm there!

My world's either or, there's very little in between. And I don't cry over spilled milk. So there's no regrets and no why didn't you. Sounds harsh, but it's an reality check really. To you whom dear to my heart, I'm always here no matter what. Like my TT ladies, Miss Lena, miss Johanne, Mr Edo Ra, SaniSan, pL, My lovely Claire, Miss Monica ( and family ) soon to be Mrs and the rest of you know who you are! I know I'm somewhat a little bad in staying in touch, but you're all always here in my heart! Though there might be a new one in this line.. You're maybe the one that's gonna make me wanna bring it back....




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This is for you...

Click the headline and open your ears to Edo Ra, The Balkan King!

He's a good friend of mine, who's going trough a hard time right now. He's going trough what I went trough and still haven't gotten over or won't, for about three months ago tonight. The death of my dad. So my heart and soul are with him and and his family these days!

I must say that it takes time. I'm thinking about my dad and how much I miss him. I just wanted to tell him I love him before he passed. And that he has been the best dad to me. And he has always been truthful with me. Never any of that in-between-the-lines talk. And if he didn't have anything to say, he didn't. We discussed global events, war, politics and he told me about things he had experienced.

So with my heart and soul to all of you whom lost a loved one - Don't forget the good times!!!

Out to dine with my dear Johanne.. <3


Copyright © 2009 Lady AhY

In and out of LOVE..

This is a tricky thing. Like i said before, giving out your heart and soul to another person. Man, it's not a thing that comes easy for me!

But to be loved you have to let yourself love. I know maybe it sounds bit cheesy, but hey it's the truth. And it takes time and commitment to build a strong, solid relationship. OK, I'll admit that I'm not an expert on love. But I do know that I want love in my life. And it's not a rule that you have to be alike or have the same opinions! I think that opposites attract. And the more you can give your partner it's better for both of you.
One of the most important things is the laughter, the other person has to make me laugh. I'm addicted to smiling and being positive. So if you can't be an optimist, just try it out! Your life will be so much more easier.

But for me it's hard letting people in under my skin. It's not a given for me that people are honest about what they're saying. But I have to choose to trust you with my heart, until you prove me wrong. If you do that! I prefer you to be honest from the beginning! And to say to you easily scared ones, don't be. And if you are, maybe it isn't right?!?

I don't demand things, just that it is the two of us...



Copyright © 2009 Lady AhY

December

The winter takes form and the cold air is all around me. I faced the ice the other day, and the result from that is a sprained ankle and crutches. But I am still smiling and happy even tho I am humping my way around.

But December is a month filled with a lot of good stuff and food! It is one of my favorites. People tend to chill out and smell the roses. And some even notice that it exists people around them and smile to them. It is always nice to be met with a smile. The worst thing is people who do not smile. It is not hard and you can make a day brighter for another person. It is so easy, so come on!

Anyways it is the last month in 2008 and it is also my birthday on the 11th. I will then be 27, so give it to me good! The year that has passed has been a good one in many ways. I got a job that I like, met a lot people and made some good friends that I always will have close to my heart and love! And I recently moved to Vika with Lena.
Tho I have been through rough times this years, my dad died the 1th of October and that is hard for me and my family. I miss him so much and had a break down the other day. I saw a TV-show where the father comforted his daughter and it just hit me in the heart and I started to cry a little.
This show, Friday Night Lights, is a warm show with a lot of heart. It is one show to watch!

As far as my love life goes.. The time will show what is in store for me! And to be honest it is a little crazy at the moment. It is all these men who resurface.
I can say that I am ready for a real relationship, but you have to show me that you are real! One of my flaws is that I quickly lose focus and just move on. I do not dwell on things or situations. And I am good at just going back inside my world like nothing has happened. But this should maybe be a sign for not being interested!
But I think life is interesting, and that it serves you a lot of opportunities and chances if you just take them. Never the less is it sad to regret over things or stuff I did not do or say when I get older.

So now I sit here at work, with my leg on the counter and a pain that is not good can I say. But still happy. It is soon Christmas and then New Years, and suddenly it is 2009. So hang on to yourself and shake it down! This is the time for craziness and fun. Bring out your happy spirits and make someone smile!



Copyright © 2008 Lady AhY

Get your act together...

Why is it so hard, seeing this for what it is? But is it different this time around? Are you real with me?

Do not come here thinking that I will not react. Things happens fast and sometimes my mind just mess things up. But I will hang around waiting to see what this is. Not losing all my focus, but keeping some on you. Never the less, give a little bit more of myself maybe that is a start. I know there are things that I do wrong, but hey come on. I am in this with you, so give me some slack dude. And you are no one to talk. Leaving me hanging like that!

No this time around we will do this my way, with my rules and regulations! But I am easy going. Just tell me what is up and be real! And yeah, I do need attention and quality time, but I want you to get that yourself. But I love my freedom, so please do not take that away from me little man! And I am not much of an arguer, so I will keep silent instead of hustling you with a shit storm.
I know that you want time to get to know me and you will get that. But I just have to say this so you will not disappear from my life again!

So give me a hint now - is it for real this time around. I will not spook you. You do that perfectly yourself dude.. But I am here, now!



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