Beauty - Is It In The Eye Of The Beholder?

I've read trough many articles that state different things about this subject. I'm guessing that it has to do with us being humans, and we seldom has the same opinions if it's not really obvious.

Like a pretty face is always a pretty face. But Beauty can come from the inside. It always does. If you take a look around and see the people walking around you. There are beautiful faces, but some changes when you speak with them. Their soul shines trough if it's a good person. Often I've spoken to a person that I think is incredible beautiful, but when he/she talks, it's not the same image anymore. Sometimes it's taken away or the person suddenly shines in front of you. The thing I'm saying is that a person with a good soul, is always beautiful no matter what! Because you see the good in their eyes from their soul! In the end it's not so much what other thinks about your significant other, but how you two are together! It's easy being carried away when you hear your friends opinion. But the only thing they should be worried about is, does he/she makes you happy?

I've been trough my share of bad relationships and still kept a few of them in my life afterwards. That's not good for either of you. I can only speak for myself, but when you've had deep feelings for a person, they're always gonna have a special place in your heart. I'm not the best at relationships, but I still know what I want in a man! The things I look for is the feeling of being complete and loved for all that I'm worth. That's to much to demand, but it's not really. This isn't a demand, but something that should be no matter what. Of course is the fit important. It has to be a person you want to spend your time with. An someone who's worth the time. So that in the end, you know that they would go trough fire for you!

I'm from a good home, with a marriage that would have lasted their lives if it wouldn't have been for my dad dieing from cancer. They've had been together for almost 40 years. Been trough their share of difficulties, like me when I grew up, stubborn and not easy to live with. So for me it's kind of hard to live up to the standards or finding someone who does.. And my mom says to me that I think about this to much. But for me family values are important. Show the people in your life that you appreciate them! With the small things..

So tell me what you think of this..




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Bring it back..

Again I'm finding myself in a situation. Where I've been faced with one or more of my opinions. So it feels like it's on it's place to maybe make this twist on it.

First of all - Happy 30th Marius, the sun's out for you, so you're one of the good men..! My mind is set on change..so we'll see what's happen..

Even though I've judge some of you guys down and under here. I have to make it right. So I, who seldom admit that I'm wrong, but do change my opinions often will say this. There are actually good men out here. My pessimistic side takes me over once in a while. As a lady you know what I'm talking about and for you who don't, it's the PMS talking. But just to say that some of you're actually assholes! Treat a lady wrong and you'll find yourself in that category. And yes, I do know that we ladies can be just as bad. But we have a way that's probably more subtle. So definition, we're only humans!
I wouldn't like to come out as heartless. But I'm protecting my heart and soul. But my guard ain't up at all times. So catch me when my lights are on and I'm there!

My world's either or, there's very little in between. And I don't cry over spilled milk. So there's no regrets and no why didn't you. Sounds harsh, but it's an reality check really. To you whom dear to my heart, I'm always here no matter what. Like my TT ladies, Miss Lena, miss Johanne, Mr Edo Ra, SaniSan, pL, My lovely Claire, Miss Monica ( and family ) soon to be Mrs and the rest of you know who you are! I know I'm somewhat a little bad in staying in touch, but you're all always here in my heart! Though there might be a new one in this line.. You're maybe the one that's gonna make me wanna bring it back....




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"To digg or not to digg..."

When I think I know - my whole world get turned upside down again. And my heart skips a beat!

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away."

I know a dude that has this quote tattooed on his arm. I like this quote, i summons up a life in a sentence! This is how you should think about life!

Anyways back to the "digging". I do not know about you all, but it is never easy liking someone. The unspeakable question here is, when do I know that he is "digging" me back? And can you trust another person with your heart?
I can only speak for myself in this matter, so you are welcome to comment here!
There is with a little doubt in my voice that I say that I can only trust myself. Because there has been incidents where others have shown themselves trustworthy to me. But when it comes to love I must say that I am a little skeptic. So i am trying not to be that. Opening my heart and letting people in.
I bought these luck charm things to carry with me for different reasons. some for love, some for warmth, for enchantment and for keeping me happy and smiling.

But do they work? Time will tell...



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If This Ain't Love..

Then tell me what is. I wonder about what is going on in that little head of yours. So could you please open your heart and tell me?

"You can not change me, just tell me what is up and let me know.
So say what you want, because now is the time for you to realize.
And stop waisting your life. Take a change and be bold.
Let it rip and your feelings go.
Do not regret what you did not do or say.
Leave the world behind yourself today.
Do take charge over your own life.
And let the people around you know what is wrong. Just be strong".

I think that I might see things more clearly now. Or is it just fake all that I see? Does my mind play tricks on me or is it just me? So If you could read my mind, would you tell that to me? Would you be inside and outside at all times? All these question, but still no answer. Hey, do not be scared. It is just thoughts and letters. Do not let it get under your skin. Just take it in, think about it and then see what happens. For a time I have been in the shadow, but as I see it is time to come out in the light and play.

So if it is me, let me know!


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