Dating..?

It's an new era and it's online. These days we communicate more here on the web than ever before. You can get in touch with people all over the world and it's awesome!

So when you make a new profile on a site, remember to show the best of you. And have in mind that every site it's an potential dating site. Because men and women see opportunities in everything. And won't nudge to try something new. But still there are rules and regulations on these sites.
When you're adding a person you don't know, write a little note. This goes for the communities. But it's the dating services it's about today. So here goes everything, almost. Be honest, write something that catches the eye and the attention. To only compliment a person, it's probably not the best way. Like you have to write something that stands out a little. So that he/she will remember you or think you're interesting.

"DON'T settle on the first guy you go out with. Even if
you like a guy and hit it off after the first date, continue
to date other men until you are in a committed relationship
with a man who truly meets all your needs.

Otherwise, you risk putting all your eggs in one basket (so
to speak) with a guy who may or may not be the one for you...
and maybe even missing the opportunity to meet the man who IS the one."

I'm guessing desperation can be seen online as well, so keep your life busy and don't sit around wait for a guy. If he hasn't decided that he wants to be with you, date other men! And be honest about your intentions towards the person you're seeing! It creates a lot of confusion and stress if you give out mixed signals.
Some guys thinks that they can have their cake and eat it too, but that's wrong. When you're not giving someone all they deserve, they often turn to others. So if you meet someone you really like and been seeing them for a while, tell them and don't think that things will change. There are a lot of guys that's afraid of loosing their "freedom", but it's not like that. If you're with someone that really cares, they always wants the best in life for you. They don't want to control you or tell you what not to do. Even when you're in a relationship, you're still to individuals! It's not important to spend every minute together, but knowing that you've got someone that loves you behind your back. I would never deny a man anything, but I do expect the same back. A relationship aren't a prison, it's a beautiful thing between two people who loves and trust each other.




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