Family, Life and Love.

For this is the most precious you have in life. Do not think otherwise! Let them always know that!

Especially in hard times like these. You need family and good friends. Do not think that you get through this alone as i do.. Because that is not true! I sit at times, both home and at work. Thinking about my situation. My feelings inside, I can feel my tears in my eyes. But what to i do? Nothing - i swallow this with "pride" and pretend. BUT I'm done pretending! I can not go around pretending to be a superwoman - though I am from time to time. But this is bringing back a lot of old feelings and thoughts.

I know that we are all human. And last night my mom told me that my grandma told her; " there are two things that are certain in life and that is that we are born and that we are going to die." And then she said something like this; "When you are dead you are hidden, but not forgotten."
That made me feel a little better. Because i have to say that i have not been often at the graves of those who i lost in life.That is not because i do not want to, but I am kind of afraid. For my own feelings and reactions. So i have to learn to let go of my controlling being and let it rip.

So I am not happy at all time - I am actually very often sad and feeling misplaced.
But i dearly love my family and friends! So know this i will always be here, through good, bad, happiness and sadness! Anytime, anywhere!

Love you all!!

We live in this world. Go around scraping the bottom for crumbs. It's strange. All the things that happens to a person in a life. But it's all part of the bigger sense. We're all a part in a world we really don't know. From time to time you stop and think about others. They look happy - i hope they are! It's the best feeling ever. Enjoying life like you should!
The one thing we all should be on is LOVE. Remember the people who touched you in life. This is what keeps us going. So smile to the people around you and let love in your life!
So as i, a person who thinks a lot. Doesn't express my feelings. But i hope you all know! Deeply in sorrow, but still alive - stay happy. Live life to the fullest. Don't regret anything!

Is this a thing we all should expect from another person? Or is it maybe only ourselves who can give us love. I keep wondering about this as the single lady i am. Isn't it fair to give out a little love to everybody. Smile to the people you meet. Let sunshine in your everyday life.

I read an article about flirting. And it said that we all should flirt every day. But that there is a line we shouldn't cross. For example, don't send out to many signs at once. This is a little disturbing. How do you know when you crossed that line?
They say that body language says all. But does it really? People act different and we are individuals. It's hard to see what you mean. We fool ourselves with analyzing and thoughts. But the dreams are important to maintain! Don't let anyone take your dreams away! Go for the things you want. Let no one stand in your way!
Do trust in the peolple around you - but know that in the end it's only you who can decide your own destiny.
Be thinking positive thoughts and stay optimistic. Then it's all like a flowing river..


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