I really want you to really want me, but I really don't know if you can do that?

When you sit alone in your own world and let your mind flow freely, is that when you decide? Decide to be with someone that means something to you?

I recently had a lot of mixed feelings about this subject, it's not easy. Are you supposed to follow your head or your heart? What does really count in the end? Is it the companionship or is it that you can just lie there quietly together without saying a word and just be comfortable?
In the end we all just wants to be accepted for who we are. Be loved, appreciated and feel safe. Nevertheless is this, love, a subject that we all have different views on from time to time. And yes, it does change. I can only speak for myself, but haven't you found yourself thinking, "if it wasn't for you I would want kids, get married and so on."?

I've been speaking to some of my friends lately, for instant my ladies. We are all agreed on that it's not easy trying to sort things out. But we learned along the years that we shouldn't take things to seriously. Just enjoy and make the most out of our lives while were here! So live it up ladies!

And for you whom still sit alone and contemplate about what to do or not to do, just do it! Take a risk of faith and see what good comes out of it. Nothing will change.. There's almost certain that you won't fail and if you do, it's just to get back up and brush it off!




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Love...

It's hard this life and if that's not enough we have to concur this thing we call love. We all look for it and when we've found it we complain. Ain't there no end to this story?

Nevertheless I have girlfriends who really wants their boyfriends to be more like they want to. But why are you together with someone you wanna change? That isn't right, is it? Or is it that you change a person or change into a person. It's not that you should want to do this, but yes there are situations where you would love the other person to do it a little different.

But why is it so hard to tell them what you want? The insecurity is now a fact. From my point of view I can see how things are with others, but when it comes to my own life it's hard. Is it that we pay for our mistakes in the next relationships? We ladies have our own way seeing what's what in this world. But we want you to see and get what we want without telling you. I get that this can be disturbing and unclear. But just give us a hint, about what's going on. Do the small romantic stuff, surprise us, send cute texts, take us out on dates and let us know that we mean something.

If you're out for fun, be honest about.

But I throw in the towel now, it's late and tomorrow it's a new day and I have an audition for Ragga Team Norway...

XoxoX




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